I am so happy for you!
All the very best in all your endeavors!
Hugs
just wanted to share with you some good news i'm really excited about.
i have been accepted for university to study psychology and counseling.
my goal is to become a counselor and, in time, to specialize on treating those who have left high control relationships/groups like we all did.. it'll take a few years before im qualified but studying in university has been a dream of mine since i was 12, which was systematically dashed to pieces by watchtower.. .
I am so happy for you!
All the very best in all your endeavors!
Hugs
i heard this expression very often and even said it often myself.
now that i am out, i realize this isn't always the case.
there were many times i was going out in service saturday morning and couldn't wait for 12:00 to come along so that we could go swimming, bicycling, play basket ball, go to the beach... .
Stephane ~ And it will get better and better until you think clearly and with joy when each week end comes around for you to plan your own adventures.
Someone was looking out my living room window recently and said (I thought) "There's Winston!" Oh, I thought, I am so happy to see Winston again!. No. They said, "Oh look. There's Witnesses". I hadn't even comphrended that it was Saturday morning... The witching hour for mind controlled JW..org robots... lol
So happy for most of us on this forum who "qustioned our religion" like a thinking human being should question anything... Before they commit themselves.
I feel so sorry for the children...
PS What you outlined above, I cannot imagine doing it AND especially doing it for a worldwide real estate fraud religion telling me I must do it for them and for free or else they will take all of my family and friends away from me and call me an evil person to boot. Hey! Slavery is supposed to be outlawed in progressive countries. This is 2017!
Glad you enjoyed your day, your way.
i just viewed this.
https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/5703039295946752/clapping-singing-conventions-like-evangelicals.
ok the point has been made.
I know someone who is so excited to go to their regional convention. She said she was in New York in 1958 and that was a great one, but this one is going to be even greater.
She loves the music. She is so desperate to be young and beautiful FOREVER lol that I think she would eat turd pies if they were sanctioned by the 7 Fools in New York.
I recall not that many years ago when a letter was read. You must not hold hands with your marriage partner during prayer. It might offend someone.
Now lets clap like we are all going on a permanent vacation to paradise and drink pina colada's. I bet none of those happy clapping Penecostal JDubs even think about who is going to be the gardner to provide all the food for the humans and animals. What? Shock! We have to WORK in Paradise??? No one ever said that!
the conversation soon got to spiritual subjects, this elder is company man all through and side kick well he's learning the ropes.
bang mentioned snake antivenin, blood factions, then big geoffrey jackson saying presumptuous, then vin toole in the arc saying he had never heard of theocratic warfare.
then told how god made exceptions to the rules on blood when soldiers ate unbled meat.
Your telling them about your brown (recluse) spider bite and that the GB of the day 40 years ago wouldn't have 'allowed" the anti venum and now, nu-lite from 7 uneducated clowns and you can. That sure would have got my grey matter thinking. I like the way you handled yourself.
May I ask, how is your bite area? Have you healed up? Those bites are horrible. I knew a guy that got bit. Not pretty.
I too would like an explanation: If the 7 Fools are not inspired, why look to them for ANY advise? Thankfully, I don't anymore but with family and friends still captured by them...
You sounded like you had fun with them. Hopefully one of them wakes up.
i would like to share my brief experience about my life from liberal jw to a ex-jw.
as i told you in my first post, i'm from juarez, mexico.
i'm second generation born-in, well not really... my mother knew jwland in 1968 and a year later, she got baptized.
Hola! I am so glad you made it through your depression okay. Hugs!
Reading Crisis of Conscience is what woke me up too! No wonder WT was was always screaming not to read it.
Looking forward to your posts.
PS Do you have any view points of the North American JW's coming down to preach in your country? Specially in the vacation spots? Swim and surf, drink and party, all the while pretending to be exemplary Christians?
PSS Activism is always good. You have so much to offer. Greetings to your wife and child.
i mailed the below letter to my mother a few weeks ago.
i did share it on the ex-jw facebook group but thought i'd post it here.. basically, she's shunned me since day 1, has little or nothing to do with my 3yo daughter and told my sister "i hope <my daughter> becomes a jw when she's older so i can welcome her into the family".
well, that was the last straw for me..
Excellent! Very well thought out and very well written.
I hope your mom reads it all the way through.
Wishing you and Erin the very best life possible!
Hugs
marrying out of the truth !!.
(author's name removed to protect privacy).
he or she-- doesn't love jehovah .
How narrow minded the author is.
There are great men in every community, every city, worldwide.
At the Kingdom Hall? Elders cover up pedophiles and treat women like second class citizens.
Would you really want to get stuck with a JW, who thinks they have to listen and obey and be loyal to 7 uneducated, out of shape, delusional old men in New York first?
i remember one of the nights that i found out the truth wasn't the truth, that is after finding out about the united nations, i remember riding my bicycle from like 1am till 5am in the city night.
it was rather chilly, maybe about 55-60 degrees and i was playing pink floyd's dark side of the moon album in my earbuds.
just riding and riding, not really tiring because of the thought that 7 men in brooklyn had duped me, duped me for like 20 plus years.
It is shocking. It is devastating when it hits us. What??? I have been lied to my entire life??? All major decisions were based on the whims of uneducated men in Brooklyn? Oops. Was I really that naive to sacrifice my whole life to the illogical thoughts of strangers?
Then it sinks in...
my dad died of a blood clot as a result of surgery late last year.
to say that his death created a bottomless void in our family is an understatement.
i think about him every day, sometimes constantly.
I am so sorry for your loss. To have someone you love die, is the most horrible feeling. And then to go suddenly, when it had been expected that he was going to be getting better, it is so hard to accept.
Once you get past the grieving, and accept that he is truly gone, I hope, in time, you will enjoy each day of remembering what a great father you had. To allow his love to be all embracing for you. That in time, his memory will give you a serge of joy and happiness... that you were truly loved by a wonderful man. Wouldn't that have made him happy? That his love for you made you a better, stronger person? Are you able to show that kind of wonderful personality your dad had to others? To be as loving and thoughtful as him? A little bit? If so, then it would be as if he were still by your side, helping you, help others.
So sorry what you and your mom have gone through and are going through still. It is so painful having to get rid of possessions that hold so many happy memories. Do you absolutely need to sell the house?
Hugs from a concerned internet friend.
the july jw broadcasting camera zooms in on tony's ring at around the 8:30 mark here:https://tv.jw.org/#en/mediaitems/latestvideos/pub-jwb_201707_1_video.
maybe it's not a big deal.
maybe it is.. in my opinion, it's being kind of flashy.
It doesn't matter what jewelry or clothes he wears... But it is hypercritical to wear jewelry... yet tell little children to give up their ice cream money to "further Kingdom interests".
He looks like he treats himself to anything he wants, ice cream, gold rings, international travel, adoring fans. And he lives in a "many room palatial estate" on the lake with maids, chauffeurs, free health care and anything his little heart desires. He listens to voices that tell him he is "special" and God has picked him because of this specialness. He's a fruit cake with supposedly 8 million adoring fans.